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[Mar. 17th, 2006|08:36 am] |
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i got a few preview tracks from "louder Now" Taking back sunday's new album and i all i have to say is wow. So far from what i hear its just as good as their first cd....clearly blows away their second. you better go pick this one up april 25th! |
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[Mar. 14th, 2006|03:37 pm] |
you're nobody until somebody loves you, at least that's half true.
xo |
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[Mar. 13th, 2006|04:25 pm] |
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the new FOB video was bomb....did you see it? |
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[Mar. 11th, 2006|05:11 pm] |
i love how i always wanna try and keep this thing updated, and yet i never have anything exciting to say...
Tho still, as boring as this posts get you all still take the time to read them. what is wrong with you? Don't you have better things to do than to listen/read whatever i randomly babble? Hm, sometime is just wish i were more interesting or had a golden tongue and could just spit whatever lyrics or words that are in my head out and make it sound like poetry or atleast half that and be somewhat interesting. Even after hearing and almost memorizing every song Pete wrote...you'd think i almost start typing or talking like him. whether good or bad, the posts remain boring and yet we both take the time on this darn thing. Whether its me writing or you reading, we are both here..so enjoy your stay and take a seat. make yourself at home or something, cuz i dont think im going anywhere.
If i knew magic, that would be sweet. |
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[Dec. 4th, 2005|05:41 pm] |
i have a question for you.
how important are your friends?
simple, right?
i want you to think of who your best friends are, what is their role? how big is the impact and influence they have had upon your life.
do you feel like they have contributed to your life in a positive manner? if so, do you feel obligated to them? do you feel you owe them your respect? do you feel they deserve more than the average?
if i asked you, "would you help your friends in their time of need?"
what would you say?
if i asked you, "would you give them the shirt off your back?"
what would you say?
if i asked you, "would you do whatever it took to help them?"
"would you do whatever it took to ensure their safety?"
"would you do whatever it took to ensure your friendship?"
"would you sacrifice?"
"would you compromise?"
"would you do everything and anything for your friends?"
i dont know you. i only know me. but i know my answer.
how prevalent is the cliche:
i would do ANYTHING for my friends?
on myspace, journals, away messages...
so then why do so many of our friendships fail?
because in our high expectations of everyone else, WE dont live up to our words.
your friendship failed because YOU didnt put forth a little more effort.
your friendship failed because YOU didnt make the attempt to understand a bit more.
your friendship failed because YOU weren't willing to give the shirt off your back.
your friendship failed because YOU weren't willing to tell your FRIEND how you truly felt.
your friendship failed because YOU failed to compromise.
we fail our friends with trite cliches, false confidence and hollow words.
we tell lies with our eyes and insincere brohugs. we fail to be completely honest with the only people in this world who are supposed to understand us.
what does that say about us?
two things:
either we dont know how to pick our friends.
or
we dont understand what the definition of 'friend' truly is.
YOU have to take some responsibility. when things are going well, YOU take all the credit...conversely, when things are going badly YOU must learn to take some of the blame.
but in our immaturity we expect everyone else to bend. to compromise. to call first. to apologize.
because we are selfish.
most likely because most of us are truly undeserving of good friends.
and like the saying goes, "you can judge a person by the company they keep"....
what that means is; if your friends are shitty people, its because YOU are a shitty person.
because you let it continue, you let them BE shitty, you dont call them on their shit, you skirt over issues and you failed to keep your promises.
so, are you willing to do anything for a friend?
are you willing to compromise?
are you willing to admit your faults and short comings?
are you willing to swallow your pride?
you want real friends?
then BE a real friend.
live up to your away messages.
live up to your journal entries.
live up to your promises.
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Chris posted this in his LJ and i think this is so true that i felt the need to repost this up. Now days people are always calling eachother friends, yet feel the need to lie to eachother or talk trash behind each others backs. They wouldnt do anything unless it benefited themselves or if it was inconvenient for them. This isnt what a friend is people. Chris has some true friends and he is a true friend to them. I envy him for this. I try to be great friends to a lot of you and there are some of you who ask, what happened? Why dont we talk much or why did we drift apart. and its fault on both of our parts, i dont call enough and you dont put any effort in to do anything, or dont wanna unless it befenits you. I am speaking in general not to anyone specific..but the thing is, if you want friends...BE a friend. Dont wait for them to do something or not do something because they dont. Like Chris said..BE a friend and if that person isnt being one back call them out on it. I know i havent held up my part of the deal either, but im gonna start. If you wanna be my friend i expect you to do the same, if you dont hold up. Be prepared to be called out. If you dont care. Im sorry for you.. |
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| friends only you little jerks |
[Jul. 10th, 2005|07:40 pm] |
If you would like to be added just leave me a comment and I'm sure I'll add you. I'm not that big of an asshole. |
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